Matthew 18:3 Explained – Why We Must Be Like a Child
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In a world that values independence, achievement, and intellectualism, Jesus gives a surprising command: “Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.” — Matthew 18:3 (KJV)
Why would the Son of God urge grown adults to “become as little children”? What does childlike faith mean, and how does it impact our spiritual lives? In this blog post, we’ll explore the biblical meaning behind Jesus’ words, what it means to become like a child, and how embracing this posture transforms our relationship with God.
What Does It Mean to Be Like a Child?
To understand Jesus’ statement, we must remember that in biblical times, children had no legal rights, no status, and were completely dependent on their parents. They were humble, teachable, and trusting. Jesus wasn’t telling us to be childish, but rather childlike in faith, humility, and dependence on God.
“Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” — Matthew 18:4 (KJV)
This verse helps clarify that the core of being like a child is humility—recognizing our complete dependence on God and submitting to His authority.
Trusting God Completely
Children naturally trust their parents. They don’t worry about how bills will be paid or if food will be on the table. They simply believe they will be cared for. In the same way, God calls us to trust Him fully.
“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.” — Proverbs 3:5 (KJV)
Childlike faith doesn’t mean blind ignorance; it means believing God’s Word even when we can’t see the outcome. It’s choosing to rest in His love and guidance like a child rests in the arms of a father.
Receiving the Kingdom with Open Hands
Jesus emphasized that unless we receive the kingdom as a child, we cannot enter it.
“But when Jesus saw it, he was much displeased, and said unto them, Suffer the little children to come unto me... Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child, he shall not enter therein.” — Mark 10:14–15 (KJV)
Children receive gifts without trying to earn them. Salvation is a gift from God—not something we work for. Jesus is teaching that we must come to Him empty-handed, with nothing but faith, ready to receive His grace.
A Teachable and Obedient Spirit
Children are naturally curious and open to learning. They ask questions, seek answers, and are eager to grow. That’s the heart posture God desires in us.
“As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby.” — 1 Peter 2:2 (KJV)
When we come to God with a teachable heart, willing to be led and corrected, we grow in spiritual maturity. Ironically, spiritual maturity often looks like childlike humility.
Joyful Simplicity and Wonder
Children find joy in the simplest things. Their hearts are full of wonder, laughter, and awe. As adults, we often lose this joy because we get distracted by worry, pride, or cynicism.
Jesus calls us back to a place of spiritual wonder—where we delight in God’s goodness and stand in awe of His power.
“Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice.” — Philippians 4:4 (KJV)
A childlike heart rejoices easily. This joy is not based on circumstances but on trust in the Father’s care.
Total Dependence on the Father
Children depend on their parents for everything—food, safety, shelter, and love. Similarly, we are not meant to live independently from God but in constant reliance on Him.
“I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.” — John 15:5 (KJV)
Living like a child means acknowledging our daily need for God's strength, wisdom, and guidance. We were never meant to do life on our own.
Letting Go of Pride and Control
Becoming like a child requires us to surrender control. Children don’t manage households or make life-altering decisions—they trust their parents. We are called to surrender our pride and let God lead.
“God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.” — James 4:6 (KJV)
Humility opens the door to grace. When we release our grip and place our trust in God, He works in ways far greater than we could imagine.
Conclusion: Becoming Childlike Isn’t Weak—It’s Powerful
In the Kingdom of God, true strength is found in humility. Faith that moves mountains is often packaged in a childlike heart—pure, trusting, and dependent. Jesus is not asking us to be naïve, but to recognize that we cannot save or sustain ourselves without Him.
By becoming like a child, we step into the fullness of grace, peace, and power that comes from trusting our Heavenly Father. This mindset unlocks joy, deepens faith, and strengthens our walk with Christ.
