Jesus Wants a Relationship, Not Religion — Here’s Why
Matthew BellShare
In today’s fast-paced world, the term “personal relationship with Jesus” is often used in sermons, books, and testimonies—but what does it really mean? Is it simply about going to church and trying to be a good person? Or is it something deeper, richer, and more transformative?
In this blog, we’ll break down what the Bible teaches about knowing Jesus personally, how to grow in that relationship, and why it’s the most important connection you’ll ever have.
Understanding a Personal Relationship With Jesus
A personal relationship with Jesus means that you know Him intimately, not just know about Him. It’s not based on religion or rituals, but on a daily walk with Christ, trusting Him, speaking with Him, and allowing Him to lead every area of your life.
This relationship begins when you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, believing in His death and resurrection for the forgiveness of your sins. But it doesn’t stop there—it grows and deepens as you live life with Him.
“That I may know him, and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of his sufferings, being made conformable unto his death;” – Philippians 3:10, KJV
Paul, the Apostle, longed to know Jesus more deeply—not just intellectually, but experientially.
Jesus Desires Relationship, Not Just Religion
Many people think Christianity is just about following rules. But Jesus came to restore relationship, not build a religion. In fact, during His time on earth, He rebuked religious leaders who focused only on outward appearances without truly knowing God.
“This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me.” – Matthew 15:8, KJV
Jesus wants your heart. He doesn’t just want you to talk about Him—He wants you to talk with Him.
How Does the Bible Describe This Relationship?
The Bible uses intimate, relational language to describe our connection to Jesus:
- Friendship:
“Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.” – John 15:14, KJV
- Shepherd and Sheep:
“I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine.” – John 10:14, KJV
- Bridegroom and Bride:
“For thy Maker is thine husband; the Lord of hosts is his name...” – Isaiah 54:5, KJV
These metaphors are deeply personal. They show that our faith is not just about duty—it’s about devotion.
Key Elements of a Personal Relationship With Jesus
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Prayer
Talking to Jesus daily is essential. You don’t need fancy words—just speak from the heart. Tell Him your worries, your joys, and ask Him to guide you. -
Reading the Word
God speaks through Scripture. When you open the Bible, you’re not just reading a book—you’re spending time with the Author. -
Obedience
Jesus said:
“If ye love me, keep my commandments.” – John 14:15, KJV
Obedience isn’t about earning love; it’s a response to love.
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Worship
Worship draws you closer to Jesus. Whether through music, gratitude, or surrender, worship shifts your focus from your problems to His presence. -
Fellowship
Spending time with other believers helps you grow. Jesus often ministered in community, and so should we.
Why a Personal Relationship With Jesus Matters
Without a relationship with Jesus, even the best moral life falls short. Christianity isn’t just a belief system—it’s a relationship with the living Savior.
“And this is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent.” – John 17:3, KJV
Eternal life begins now, not just after death. It starts when you begin to know Jesus personally and walk with Him daily.
How to Start or Renew Your Relationship With Jesus
If you’ve never accepted Jesus, or if you feel distant from Him, it’s never too late to begin—or begin again.
Here’s a simple prayer you can pray:
“Lord Jesus, I want to know You personally. I believe You died for my sins and rose again. I invite You into my life to be my Savior and Lord. Teach me to walk with You every day. Amen.”
If you prayed that prayer sincerely, you’ve taken the first step in building the most important relationship of your life.
Final Thoughts: Jesus Wants to Walk With You Daily
Having a personal relationship with Jesus doesn’t mean life will be perfect—but it does mean you’ll never walk alone. He will guide, comfort, correct, and strengthen you every step of the way.
“Lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world.” – Matthew 28:20, KJV
